The art of deep connection has not been covered nearly enough in the seduction community, especially to the level that it so rightly deserves. Us women believe that the few men who can see behind our masks, and see through the bravado that we choose to display, make far more of a positive impact than the countless men out there who are unable to get behind our masks or bravados. Women automatically RESPECT the men who have the power and insight to accomplish this, and as most people know a woman must have respect for a man before she can be attracted to him. Getting behind the girls exterior shield is only the first step of achieving ‘deep connection’ and even achieving just this single step can create some incredible results. I have been teaching my students the “art of creating deep connection” since 2006 and here are just a few of the testimonials I have received from some of my students on the subject. Powerful techniques that you can apply straight away!
“I was having dull conversations with women, who looked bored usually within 10 minutes after all the light friendly banter had finished. I couldn’t work out what the problem was. I tried learning conversation techniques such as creating multiple threads and so on, but still I was not able to make enough impact with the women I spoke to, and I was certainly not getting any solid closes. Kezia taught me the deep connection method, which was to say the least, astoundingly insightful, and made the female mind seem so much more easier to understand. Most importantly, after using the deep connection methods she taught me, I was finally getting the results I always wanted.”- Pete.
“ I was sick of women giving me their telephone numbers, and never hearing from them again. I went to Kezia initially wanting to learn better ways to get more solid closes, but when she taught me the deep connection techniques, it all made perfect sense to why women did not want to see me again. I have been applying her deep connection techniques now for 8 months and women are not only wanting to see me again and again, but they are actually wanting me to do much more than just getting their telephone numbers” – Amid. “Kezias lesson on “creating deep connection” has been the most fundamentally important lesson I ever got from anyone in the seduction community.
Mastering this art and understanding the power it can give a guy is invaluable. Every woman I now chat up always says that they feel some kind of unusual bond with me that they can’t quite explain.
I always though getting hot women was just about being cocky, fun and confident, but although these are great attributes to have, deep connection is definitely the final piece to the jigsaw and with out doubt the most important the most important one. “Women are now fascinated by me. They used to see me as just another guy hitting on yet another woman, and they would forget about me very quickly, or even worse, they would end the conversation too soon for me to even attempt any form of attraction building! But since learning Kezias deep connection techniques, I am able to get the woman’s full 100 percent attention, and because they reveal so much about themselves both psychologically and emotionally they become completely fascinated with me, and want to get to know me so much more than the other guys they meet” – Dean. Hours of groundbreaking techniques that will give you a step by step break down which will have you mastering the art of creating deep connection, and hand you one of the most powerful secrets in the seduction community is yours to have. This DVD is split in to 25 separate steps.
Each step has been carefully broken down and explained in fine and logical detail (Vague descriptions and explanations are strictly banned from this DVD) in order for you to grasp and apply this technique straight away! There will also be demonstrations and videoed practice sessions with a number of different types of women, and all demos are done by the men who were lucky enough to attend the filmed event. This will include the mistakes they made as well as the amazing moments when they achieved deep connection with even some frustratingly difficult and impossibly shy girls.
Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training, I can hear the flack I will catch already. “RJ, why in the fuck-tard are you promoting/supporting/endorsing a female “Pick Up Artist”?
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Don’t you frequently warn us that women are full of shit, that we should never ask women for advice about women, etc etc etc?” Well, yes. Almost always. And.and.Kezia really does have a different, honest and mostly powerful perspective on what works with hot women. Now listen: she teaches a lot of stuff for clubs and I don’t operate in that environment. And because she came from a “PUA” back round she still throws out some of that jargon, like “negs” “IOI”s.
But when you get past that, she’s got some really deep, valuable and well-conveyed insights into the psychology of hot women, the games they play, how to turn those games around 180 on them, and get the hot poontangus you desire. In this interview, I especially want you to pay attention to her concept of getting women to drop their “mask”. We go about it a different way, she and I, but it gets the same result. Here is the interview and I welcome your comments and feedback. Peace and piece, RJ P.S.
As of now, I don’t get one penny from anything I recommend by Kezia, although I expect that shortly to change. I am seriously thinking of doing a one day jointly taught event with her in LA, titled, “Deep Connection and Sexual Escalation” as you will hear us discuss. Let me know what you think of the idea. It would be end of August, early September and we’d keep it very inexpensive so we could get a good audience to film for a product. Kezia’s website can be found.
Ross Jeffries™ is the founder, creator and Master Teacher of the worldwide seduction community. Featured as the mentor to Neil Strauss in the best-selling book, “The Game”, RJ has taught, coached, and mentored thousands of men around the world, since 1991, guiding them to the success with women they truly desire and deserve. Speed Seduction® shows you how to succeed with the women you really want, predictably and reliably, without guesswork or games - respecting yourself and the women you enjoy.
Forget the copycats and learn from the original – RJ! Ross You definitley must make that connection/sexual acceleration DVD with her for us. You’re very good at getting specifics and details from her. The vague generalities that she tends to use are little help, and even useless to the point of frustrating. You could probably make several DVD’s with her that would be very helpful to us.
Beyond just getting the girl aroused, like how to actualy close the deal to the point where we have the girl in bed and don’t mess things up the last minute after we got her attracted and aroused. Ross, I’ve watched most all of your interviews and have friends that have bought your programs, which I’ve watched most of.
And I have to say that Kezia is one of, if not the best women you’ve showcased to provide a counterpoint perspective (i.e. A woman’s point of view)about the male-female “meet-greet, mate-date” synchronicity. She’s strictly a “Weed and Feed” woman (she weeds out the weak, and she feeds the strong if they know how to open the “bitch-mask” door.and partake).
That’s probably due in part to her heritage of being British with a direct succinct personality. As she said in this interview, I would say “you are my type woman”.
I know this because I’m dating a classy British woman. She is beautiful, but more importantly, she’s classy.and she knows it, but doesn’t flaunt it; much like Kezia; she’s got it, she knows it, and she is!!!! It’s sad that so many women here in the US want to play mind games and believe they’re empowering their positions as “goddesses” to men when in actuality, they’re destroying it.
It’s been my experience that European women, especially the attractive beautiful ones, are very succinct and engaging.if you can get through that “bitch-mask” door. My first adventure with a European woman was French, and now the second which is British. I definitely think you and Kezia should do a video together.
She brings a fresh counterpoint perspective that compliments what you teach.and there’s nothing better than hearing the unbiased, unjaded truth from a beautiful woman!!!!! The point when she talks about ‘respect first’, then attraction is where she diverts quite considerably from the very powerful use of language patterns (even the most simple) and anchoring which you teach Ross. Kez has a very straight forward approach, and is not generally open to you or others using hypnotic patterns on her.
However, I appreciate her approach is also refreshing in the PUA community. She is spot on in joining your approach on use of voice tone, pace and vibe. Great interview Kez and RJ.
It's interesting to hear what women are looking for from the perspective of an attractive woman who gets hit on a lot. She can offer insights that other dating coaches can't. But it also seems to be harder for her to teach what works in a simple way for guys to understand.
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In the classroom practice sessions every single one of the guys struggles to implement what they have just been taught. If you've got a solid grasp of the basics already and can approach and attract women consistently, but struggle to make a connection with them then you might find this useful. It's not a complete system in itself, and getting good at the techniques here alone won't be enough to make women sexually interested in you. For a course specifically aimed at developing connections with people, and that provides a bit more structure and is easier to implement, check out. FULL DETAILED REVIEW. Kezia Noble starts this seminar by talking about flaky numbers and the main reasons why girls will give out their number to a guy and then not answer his calls or respond to his texts.
The first two reasons are interesting to hear from the perspective of a woman who admittedly does this all the time, especially the one about getting a number via direct game and the emotional effect that this can have on women. It's not something most guys would probably ever consider so this allows you to get a solid understanding of a woman's reality and where she is coming from.
The third reason that Kezia states women won't respond to you is that you didn't develop a deep connection. So this seminar is more or less presented from the point of view of how to develop a connection when you initially meet a woman so that she will want to see you again. Contextual Relevancy One of the problems with this product is that it's aimed at beginners but doesn't provide any proper context for the techniques. Kezia refers throughout the seminar to meeting women in clubs, but what she teaches is only going to have limited use in that environment. Most girls who go out to nightclubs, even those who are wanting to meet guys, aren't desperately hoping to have super deep conversations with people they have only just met.
They want to have fun and experience excitement and good emotions. A lot of the examples that Kezia uses are specifically related to what to ask a girl about her job/career and taking it to a deeper level to connect with her emotionally. The problem with this is that most girls don't want to talk about their job in a high energy environment where they're looking to have fun. And by asking her a lot of these deep, probing questions you're more likely to come across as a buzzkill then an attractive guy she wants to see again. One of Kezia's assertions is that women are tired of having surface level conversations and are yearning to have a man connect with them on a much deeper level than that. This is true, but with an important caveat. Women aren't looking to develop deep connections with every man that approaches them.
They want to connect with men that they are attracted to. So once you've already got a woman interested in you, then that's when you can start applying these techniques more successfully.
But Kezia doesn't do a great job of teaching you when to start going deeper. She correctly points out that you don't want to come across as interrogating the girl and trying to get really deep straight away, but doesn't tell you at what point you should start trying to do so. It's a bit like you're given the information but kind of left to your own devices as how to best apply it.
It would have been great if Kezia had given some advice on how to have a fun and interesting conversation when you first meet a girl, and then what to look for so that you know the girl is ready to start opening up to you more. My concern is that guys who watch these DVD's are going to go to bars and clubs and within the first minute of an interaction start asking the girl these really personal questions, trying to connect on a deep level as Kezia describes. But attempting to do so is going to come across as weird and scare the girl away most of the time as she doesn't know you or feel comfortable enough yet. Some of the questions she suggests asking are decent, but some are not a good idea.
There are a couple of questions that you might expect to hear in a job interview, and would be really out of place in a nightclub. But a lot of these ideas will work better in a quieter, more intimate setting, such as out on a date. For some really great advice on how to handle the early part of a conversation when you first meet a woman, check out. Getting Past A Woman's Mask Kezia continually refers to the concept that people are making their way through life wearing a mask of how they want to present themselves to others. And that they key to developing a deep connection with a woman is to get past her mask and let her know that you see her for who she really is.
This is true, and it's an area where many men struggle. This area of her presentation contains some really solid information. She gives some examples of her and her friends and the different masks they use when they go out, and the reasons they do it.
This will be interesting for guys who have no experience with this to hear, and will hopefully encourage you to examine the motivations of women in doing some of the things they do. If you can go deeper and realize why they do what they do, you can cut through a lot of insincerity and connect with her on a genuine level. Kezia uses the analogy of an iceberg being like conversations we tend to have. Only 10% of the iceberg can be seen above the surface, while 90% of it is hidden below and holding up the part you can see. So what she's showing is how to explore different layers of the 'iceberg' to get to a much deeper level. She refers to doing this as discovering a woman's different beliefs, but what I think she really means is values. Basically the whole idea of what she teaches could be summed up as a form of value elicitation to find out who a woman is and what's important to her.
Conflicting And Missing Information There are times when what is presented could be somewhat confusing. For instance, Kezia mentions that you don't want to try and go too deep right away.
Yet when the students are practicing on women (see more details below) she's constantly telling them they are not going deep enough practically from the beginning. She also talks about how you can go deep and then break it off and return to the surface level again and then go deeper (known as fractionation). But when one of the students is at a deeper level and attempts to go back to the surface she stops him and tells him not to do that. She isn't wrong in what she's suggesting, the only problem is that it's too difficult for the students to understand. There are no signposts for them to look out for that let them know what stage they are at and where to go next.
A lot of what she is teaching relies on you having good instincts and calibration skills so you know when to do what, but for beginners they just don't have the experience level to know this. There's other things that are mentioned but not really explained in any detail. The topic of sexual escalation is brought up a few times but not in a way that shows guys how to do it. She mentions that you can use deep connection as a springboard to sexual connection, but stops short of giving you any practical information on how you can do it.
One of the issues here could be that Kezia doesn't have any experience doing this herself so doesn't know how to convey this information to men. Even though she's dated many different men, she would have been playing the passive role in the interaction and the guy is leading things forward. This is where women hand over all responsibility to the man for any escalation that happens, and often say things like 'it just happened'.
This is what women want you to do, but it likely makes it harder for Kezia to describe in any detail specifically what you should do, compared to a male dating coach who has done this hundreds or thousands of times. Similarly, there's a segment where she talks about the importance of push-pull and how powerful it is.
But she doesn't go into any actual explanation of it or give examples of how you can use it. She does ask the students if they know what it is, and presumably no one asks her for any more information on it. That's one of the problems with a recording of a seminar, that you can focus on teaching those who are there live and forget there are going to be people watching the DVD who will need something explained more in depth.
Student Practice Sessions The majority of the second DVD consists of the seminar students trying out the techniques on women who Kezia has brought along, including her sister. In a way this is a good learning experience, but it's also pretty painful to watch. All of the guys really struggle to understand what it is Kezia wants them to do. I wasn't clear if the guys were supposed to be talking to them as if they had just met them in a role play type scenario, or just talking to them in general. I'm not sure the guys really understood either.
A lot of it was just asking them about their jobs or hobbies and then trying to go to deeper levels from there. One of the issues is it doesn't simulate a realistic interaction. The women are there answering the questions and trying to help out, so would not respond the same way as if this were in a bar or club.
Overall this had the feel of an awkward speed dating event. The guy sits down, shakes the girl's hand, asks her what she does and then proceeds to flounder as he doesn't know what to say next.
This is what happened for pretty much all of the guys who were shown taking part. Kezia does step in and offer them direction and guidance, and it steers them in the right direction. But without her prodding them they really have no idea of what to do. A German student and Kezia clearly become frustrated with each other at one point, as he doesn't know what to say and she can't seem to understand why he is struggling.
It's an example of how beginners often need more concrete instructions on exactly what to say and do, and how general guidelines might not be enough. The Bigger Picture In the grand scheme of things, the techniques that Kezia teaches here are useful but they are only a small part of getting more success with women. The way that I looked at it was like this: if each of the students shown had smoothly used these techniques, would any of the women been sexually interested in any of them? It's highly doubtful. Even if they perfected these techniques and she didn't know them, there's virtually zero chance Kezia would ever date a single one of these guys. There's too many basic level things that they are struggling with that need to be worked on first. Poor body language, nervous fidgeting and stuttering, bad sense of style, poor tonality and other issues are all going to be a major hurdle before getting solid success with women.
To be fair to these guys, they are performing in front of an audience and that has likely increased their nervousness. But when you watch the interactions they all lack any kind of chemistry. There is no flirting or sexual tension present at all. And one of the main reasons is the women can clearly tell the guys have no confidence and are uncomfortable. In real life situations women will talk to guys like this more out of pity, but they won't be interested in dating them. Kezia even admits at one point that a deep connection is not enough by itself to make a woman sexually attracted to a man. Some of the guys had worked with Kezia before, and one of them had better body language and was more relaxed than all the others.
But he still had no idea about how to have a conversation with the woman and the interaction was awkward. It's an example how you really need to work on the basics first before you worry about trying to form deep connections with women. If you can't approach a girl and have an interesting conversation with her for a couple of minutes without stumbling over your words and generally looking uncomfortable, this product is too advanced for you. The students didn't have any of their bigger obstacles pointed out to them, so they may think not getting a deep enough connection is holding them back when really it's a bunch of other things. The Bottom Line It's interesting to hear what women are looking for from the perspective of an attractive woman who gets hit on a lot.
She can offer insights that other dating coaches can't. But it also seems to be harder for her to teach what works in a simple way for guys to understand. In the classroom practice sessions every single one of the guys struggles to implement what they have just been taught.
If you've got a solid grasp of the basics already and can approach and attract women consistently, but struggle to make a connection with them then you might find this useful. It's not a complete system in itself, and getting good at the techniques here alone won't be enough to make women sexually interested in you. For a course specifically aimed at developing connections with people, and that provides a bit more structure and is easier to implement, check out. This comes with 2 dvds.The first dvd contains rapport building.Kezia likens every person to an iceberg,where 9/10 is hidden from view.She presents a model in which you get to deeper layers of a woman by mining specific things she says for their underlying emotional meaning.So if woman says she loves to dance,you don't make an obvious comment like 'That's cool,does it keep you fit?'
,instead you get to why she does it,it might for example set her free from mundane problems in life,you could then explore her need to escape.Kezia bans you from asking boring questions that everyone else asks,in particular if jobs comes up,do not ask 'how long have you done that','where do you work','how did you get into that?' ,'do you like it?' 'who do you work for?' .These are so dull they will send anyone catatonic with boredom.Better responses would be 'is that something you wanted to do as a kid?' Or'did you choose that or did your parents/school push you into it?'
Okay, I was watching this, and for most of e dvd kezia just talks, usless information that won't help you, she doesn't give anything away. Instead she draws an iceberg on the board and lays out how deep connection looks with someone who is a dancer, but the model she shows is what she refered to as the interrogation model.
And then she says not to do,it. So well done, you just wasted 15 minutes showing us how not to do something, but then doesn't actually show you how to achieve the same results doing it the right way. That's a rip off. Instead she waffles on about what deep connection is going to do for you, ok fine, we don't care, just tell us what to do so we can do it. After several more minutes of jibber jabber, she decides to finally give us the lines we are suppose to use on the girl when we talk to her. The bad part is, she only gives us lines that relate to the girls job. And she gives about six examples of what you can say.
So after a full hour into the dvd with get a choice to use one of six lines on a girl we can use when she gives you her job. So we use one of the lines, and then. Well that's it, there is no then, the seminar is over, and the role plays begin. That's the product in full.
She doesn't give an example of how the iceberg model looks when you are making this deep connection, she only shows you the interrogation ice berg model, that actually went deep into why the girl wants to be a dancer, but doesn't show you how to actually structure the conversation in the proper way to get the same answers. What is most annoying is that her book, actually has more information about it, as well as the ten hook lead system. You don't need this dvd set AT ALL if you have the ten hook lead system, cos all of the deep connection stuff is covered in there anyway, and in a lot more detail.
The final verdict is just buy her book for 5 quid, it has all her information in it, don't let her scam you with this crappy DVDs. I've been in the game for a while, and i know pretty much all the direct and indirect methods. This dvd set is an indirect method of trying to have a deep conversation with a girl, it is also known as Qualification.
Qualification is a method we use to make the girl put in the work for us, using a series of challenges. It's suppose to feel good for the girl when we reward her with acceptance. However, this dvd set, doesn't go into enough detail, its very very basic. And for a person who is new to this, they wont really understand what is going on here, it doesn't give you enough to go on. Its only because I've learned from better coaches that i understand what the aim of this dvd set is. Qualification is only part of the whole package, which isnt explained here. You cant just use this stuff and expect to get anywhere, because it wont work.
Kezia fails to explain this, because being a woman, she wouldn't have any idea anyway. Shes just taking material that was already taught to her from pua training and trying to put her own spin on it, without actually understanding it fully herself. This is reflected in the students on the DVD as they struggle to implement what kezia has taught them. It feels very unnatural.
The reason it feels unnatural is because is it. All the demos with the students just start off using deep connection and this is not how a normal conversation is structured. You must first build comfort and break rapport before attempting deep connection, but no body is told this on the dvd set. Its just rather sad really.
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Kezia is just in it for the money, and doesnt really care either way. I totally agree with everything the editor has said about these dvds. I have tried deep connection in night clubs, and girls are put off saying im mr psychologist or something, and commenting that im trying to get too deep with them too fast. So ive proven it doesn't work in nightclubs. Ive done it to girls in my work place. They answered the questions, i made the connection, then it was forgotten about by home time.
You see, the girls, simply DON'T CARE. If you make the connection they just dismiss it and move on regardless. El pelon del mikrophone cd rar. Actually talking about surface level stuff is quite normal and more generally accepted for a casual conversation. Trying to get deeper into why she loves to dance will make you come off as weird.
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The editor has pointed out that shed rather do all this deep connection stuff with someone she is already involved with, which is fine. In that case, the dvd is not needed until you've actually got into a relationship with that girl. I can promise, that if anyone reading this actually seen kezia in a nightclub, and you tried this stuff on her, shed laugh at you and turn her back to you. The men featured in this dvd for the roleplaying really struggle to do deep connection, and its only because this is a filmed seminar that the girls even entertain a conversation with them.
Should they try this on the same girls in a night club or coffee shop, they would soon be blown out, because the girls simply wouldnt care. Buy this ONLY when you are able to get a girlfriend.
Are you sick of women being unresponsive? Do you want to make a strong and positive impact on any woman you like? Are you tired of women not wanting to see you again? (Even when they give you their number) Have you had enough of having dull uninspiring interactions with women you like? Do you want to learn how to get ‘SOLID” number closes?
Do you want to make women become fascinated with you? Do you want to stand out from the rest of the men without using cheap gimmicks? Do you want a woman to feel she can trust you as much as people she has known for years? If you answered YES to one or more of these questions then you are ready to master the art of ‘deep connection’. The Breakthrough ‘attraction system’ that will trigger her interest and desire within minutes” The art of deep connection has not been covered nearly enough in the seduction community, especially to the level that it so rightly deserves. Us women believe that the few men who can see behind our masks, and see through the bravado that we choose to display, make far more of a positive impact than the countless men out there who are unable to get behind our masks or bravados.
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Women automatically RESPECT the men who have the power and insight to accomplish this, and as most people know a woman must have respect for a man before she can be attracted to him. Getting behind the girls exterior shield is only the first step of achieving ‘deep connection’ and even achieving just this single step can create some incredible results.
I have been teaching my students the “art of creating deep connection” since 2006 and here are just a few of the testimonials I have received from some of my students on the subject. Powerful techniques that you can apply straight away! If, like my students, you want to learn the art of mastering deep connection and get the results with women you did not think were achievable, then what I have to offer for a SHORT PERIOD OF TIME ONLY is ready, and can be yours to keep forever!
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Introducing Kezia’s long awaited ‘Deep Connection” DVD set. Hours of groundbreaking techniques that will give you a step by step break down which will have you mastering the art of creating deep connection, and hand you one of the most powerful secrets in the seduction community is yours to have. This DVD is split in to 25 separate steps. Each step has been carefully broken down and explained in fine and logical detail (Vague descriptions and explanations are strictly banned from this DVD) in order for you to grasp and apply this technique straight away! There will also be demonstrations and videoed practice sessions with a number of different types of women, and all demos are done by the men who were lucky enough to attend the filmed event. This will include the mistakes they made as well as the amazing moments when they achieved deep connection with even some frustratingly difficult and impossibly shy girls.
Actual demonstrations is something that I know men out there always demand, theory is good, but seeing the theory put in to practice is even better! “Master the techniques that male dating coaches could NEVER give you” What can deep connection and this DVD set do for you? Deep connection will.
Make her want to see you again and again and again Make all the other distractions around you both become out of focus, and put you firmly in focus Allow you to build up an almost instant sense of trust with her Will make her respect you. Will make her completely fascinated by you Will give you an invaluable insight in to the female mind Will act as a springboard to create sexual escalation Will get you solid number closes (NO MORE FLAKY NUMBERS) Will produce super interesting and inspiring conversations Will help you read any woman no matter how much of a shield she puts up.
Will provide you with enough conversation material, that you will never be scared of ‘running out of things to say’ or ‘dead ends’ or uncomfortable silences’ ever again. But most importantly, mastering the art of deep connection will get you the results you want!